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It's almost 2 months, things have gone so moderately. From the mental and physical agony I've experience, I can still see a long way to travel to fully escape such ardous occurences. Things have been fleeting away farther and farther each day making some things for me to keep stagnant. I'm moving on forward in my life right now and making it 1 step at a time. What makes a trip memorable is the journey and not the destination. A friend says, "If you decided to wait to be happy, you will wait forever, but if you started to decide to be happy, you'll be happy forever." With these message, I came to realize that there are a lot of things to value and enjoy other than having a boy-and-girl relationship. Such hurtful break-up 2 months ago, made me a more stronger person. I became closed to my casual friends whom I was not so close before. I expanded my circle of friends. But still, there's still this something that make HER standout among the people I know. I known her quite fully from head to toe, and I know what she likes or doesn't like. Moreover, I consider her someone unique that no other girl can ever replace her. But lately, she's been different. She keeps on ignoring serious things and sometimes doesn't anymore listen to me. I just don't know. It's her decision and I can force her to listen to me if she doesn't like to listen. More so, I just don't understand myself that I still keep on clinging to her.

Until now, I am still confused. I know that there's nothing constant in this world but change. After such distressing breakup, we dealt promises together which I wrote from the latter blog. The promises may possible go in two directions, eithers it will come true or not. She promised that she will strive to do her part to also achieve that promise, though she always says, "lantawon nato" translation "let's see what tomorrow brings." Promises would hardly come true if neither partly will not work together. They say it takes two to tango.

Though I understand that she has her boyfriend now, I still can't still handle and accept all things happening. Everything happened in a surprise and still I was surprised. I keep on praying to GOD to give me strength to accept things and give me patience to wait for her. I still can't still replace her throne in my being.

For now, I know, that though she has a relationship with someone, I trust her that she knows what to do. I know, she want's to focus on her career now. I am also doing the same. One goal at a time: to pass the Nursing Licensure Examination this November. After then, I will plan what to do next. I was planning to proceed to Medical School but our family can't afford it. I will cross the bridge when I get there.

As I was writing this, I am excited to read this again in the near or late future to see if things were met or not. Four to six years from now, a lot of things might happen. I just don't know what will happen. Surprises will come.

Sharheyll C. Gemira: you are just someone I can't afford to replace. I had my chance but I didn't maximize that chance. If God would answer and allow me to be given another chance, this time on, I will never leave you...

Godbless!